Love...the Good, The Bad, and all in between

So he said between his smile and his regrets, "Don't let this be over." But I put my hand over his mouth and said, "It already is."

I want to hear you say you'll miss me like I'll miss you. and I can’t pretend that I’m happy when you’re miles away. I just need someone to tell me that I’m not alone

He was different. He never said "I want to be friends." After he said goodbye, it was like he knew, he knew that he had broken my heart bad enough when he saw my tears fall. He knew me well enough that he just knew what to say. And when he spoke, he looked me in the eyes and said, "I hope you talk to me again someday."

He never noticed her. To him, she was like every other face in the crowd. Until the day she picked her head up and blew him away with her smile.

Time never had a chance to heal your heart Just a number always counting down to a new start

I need someone who can keep up with me. I want someone aggressive, who pushes me to my breaking point where I just wanna scream. Someone who will tell me that i'm not always right, and that sometimes I have to apologize for what I do wrong. I need someone who's gonna set me straight because no one has ever cared enough about me to try.

wait for the person who pursues you, the one who will make an ordinary moment seem magical, the kind of person who brings out the best in you & makes you want to be a better person ; wait for the person who will be your best friend , the only person who will drop everything to be with you at any time no matter what the circumstances, for the person who makes you smile like no one else & when they smile you know they need you. wait for the person who wants to show you off to the world when you are in sweats & a tee shirt, but appreciates it when you get dressed up for them. & most of all, wait for the person who will put you up at the center of their universe, because that's where you belong.

I said, "I don't believe in love." So you said, "Believe in me."

The more you get to know a person, the more attractive they become to you. Because everything beautiful you see on the inside of them, suddenly you're able to see on the outside of them too.

She's not gonna forget about you. You mattered to her.

The greatest feeling in the world is to be around someone who wants to hold you, to kiss your forehead, and to be around you. Who wants to call you at night, to see you smile. But, what's better than that is finding someone that does it all, because he wants to see you happy.

Sometimes you build up these walls, you build & you build & you think they`re so strong, but then someone can come along & tip them over with only his fingers, or the weight of his breath..

Just once I want someone to look at me and right away think Im beautiful. Not after they get to know me, or after they see inside my soul just me.and not lie to me like my friends do when they tell me im beautiful to make me happy. I want to walk into a room and light it up.

-I'm sure we all can relate, male and female.-

It was hard to let go. 'Cause when I was around him, I was just me. I didn't have to be anyone but myself. People like that are hard to find. And I think once we lose those people, we were afraid we'd never find them again.

And yet, it didn't feel the way it used too. I didn't get the feeling that I used to. Nothing is the same anymore. The looks aren't the same, the bond is not the same. Nothing is the same. I know we've fought to stay strong for a while too. Rather there was a knot in my stomach. You looked in my eyes as we sat across from each other, and I held it as long as I could handle this time. I was the first to look away, but sometimes I feel that being strong would mean letting go. So maybe one day, we won't pretend anymore. So maybe one day it will be okay again. That's all I want. I don't care what it takes. I want it to be okay again.

getting through life & growing up, you tend to get hurt & get your heart crushed. but what you have to realize is that if God had intended you two to be together, He will find a way. but if you two don't end up together... that just means there is someone out there who is more perfect waiting for you.

All I wanna be is the girl falling asleep in your arms not caring about anything else in the world except how I feel right there when I'm with you.

Move on. He's just a chapter in the past. Don't close the book, just turn the page


She isn't perfect. Neither is he. But together They just may be.

I just want to get inside your head, so i can see how you feel about me. It's all i wonder about lately. All i want to know is what you see.

there's not much more to discuss- there's you & me but there's no us.

i guess you're proof that when you finally let go of the past, someone better comes along.

He smiles, and then looks away; you wonder just maybe that smile meant something he couldn't say.

Tell me, do you think I'm falling for him? All he means to me is a really good friend, someone who can make me laugh, make me smile; someone I can joke around with, someone who I can be myself with. All he is to me is the person who gave me back my smile.

you can tell who really loves you by the look in their eyes

but when i look into your eyes, i'm not sure friendship is all i see you can't tell me we're just friends. because friends don't look at each other the way you look at me. And she looks him in the eyes & tries so hard to hide how she feels. we're not friends. friends don't look at each other quite the way we do.

I wonder if anyone else sees it, and if they do, what do they think?

his friends were jealous of him. he's got her and they don't. he could do anything with her but he chose to stay away from her. not get too attached. they didn't understand why why he pushed her away and didn't give her everything she wanted she was worth everything in the world but he didn't treat her like that. they didn't understand. no one did.

You can see that he thinks about her, but he doesn't make a move. He thinks she's too beautiful for him, & she thinks he's too amazing for her.

He isnt my boyfriend, but i love his hugs, his smile, his advice, his love, his kindness and the times we laugh together.

i think that everybody just needs someone to believe in them. someone to think theyre beautiful, someone to think theyre amazing, you need that person, and i can be that for you.

And every one of our attempted hang outs ends with me in your arms and our lips pressed together, every one one of our attempts at being friendly, ends with us realizing that we can't be just friends

I'm not the type of girl that you're probably used to. I laugh when things aren't funny, and I don't cry in public. I say what I think without even thinking. I hide a lot of my current problems, but I'm not afraid to let people know my imperfect past. I take everything the wrong way; some may say i have a dirty mind. I dance to background music. I admit when I'm wrong. You'll never see me give up on something I believe in. Because I am who I am, and you can't say you've ever met another like me.

you can't find the right person if you never let go of the wrong one

Isnt it funny how everyone says we look so good together we just have that chemistry

someday when we're at the same place when we're on the same road when it's okay to hold my hand without feeling lost without all the excuses when it's just because you love me, you let me, you need me, then maybe.

You take a while to fall in love with someone. Trust takes time. You tend to give more than take in relationships. You need your space & privacy. You don't like to be smothered. You're secretly hoping your partner will change for you. You stay in love for a long time, even if you aren't loved back. When you fall, you fall hard.

cause in a heartbeat, we changed so fast. and now the stars are aligning, and the moon is setting and i will be the best damn constellation that's in your sky tonight.

i've accepted that we can't be, but i've also accepted that you're going to be that one person i carry with me for the rest of my life. the one that is always going to make my heart jump and my stomach tie up in knots no matter how happy i am otherwise and no matter how long it's been. the one i will always secretly wish had asked me to the dance even though i am more than happy with the guy who did. do you realize how incredibly difficult it is to accept both those things at once? it's torture...

pain is knowing you are right for each other, just not right now

they say we stand a little too close, stare a little bit too long, they probably think we are in love but who knows, maybe we are

I know Im not easy to understand
I know I keep a lot inside, & I know
I'm not the easiest person to read
But thats okay, you know. Cause
Even though theres a lot about me
You'll never know, theres a hell alot
More of me you can learn to love

I'm not afraid to piss you off anymore.
You mean the world to me
& you know that,
But in order for this to
Work we've got to be honest
With each other, no
Matter what that means.

The problem :
She won`t let him in.
She has built these complex walls
Around her heart for so many years now
That it`s too exausting for him
To try to break them down.
She`s been hurt so badly in the past
That she won`t let him in that easily.
He`ll have to work for it...
But if he does, & he gets in ;
He`ll be suprised at how
Amazing she really is
& how much she has been
Put through in her life
& still be a strong person.


Today I heard a song on the radio from a few years before.
A love song.
I didn't think anything of it those few years ago,
But now -- I actually listen to the lyrics,
And all I think about is YOU.

I'm not the kind of girl
Who thinks a guy is the answer to everything,
I'm just so damn tired of being alone.

How can he be sorry that he hurt you,
If he doesnt even know he did?
You're keeping your feelings locked up inside
& not telling him how you truly feel

It's hard to be happy
In the arms of the one you love..
When you know
They are wishing
You were someone else

You're the first boy
To get HIM off my mind

Developing a new emotion
For someone new is easy
The hard part is getting rid
Of the old emotion
You had for someone ELSE

Why are you always on the verge of goodbye
Before I'll show you how I really feel inside?

A clean break is easier than a messy one
You can reset it and it heals
And you move on
If you leave things messy...
Or things dont get put right
Then it hurts... forever

Everynight I pray that she realizes
How lucky she is to have you

They go dancing
Around and around
Without any cares
And her very first love
Is holding her close
And for a moment
She isnt scared...

We are the perfect couple, we're just not in the perfect situation

If u see me walking with some else, Its not because I love him Its because youre not brave enough to walk beside me So if I fall in love with someone else, Its not because I wanted to Its because you weren't there to catch me

Do you remember that night… That night when all of a sudden, Out of the blue, you and I Became absolutely crazy about each other?

If you really love me
---PROVE IT---

I want so bad for you to hold me in your arms and tell me that you love me, but when you do- I think youre lying.

Ask him if he ever
Still thinks about me
He'll say
"Every once in a while"

Dont waste your heart
On a wild thing

Once upon a time I was falling in love
Now Im only falling apart

I want you I need you
But I aint ever going to love you
Now dont be sad
Cause two out of three aint bad

This may not last forever
But it sure feels right
For right now

How do you teach your soul
That its time
To fall in love again?

you need to stop
breaking my heart

i know that it wil
work out and get easier
but it sucks that
it may not work out
the way i want it to

I used to be scared
Of letting someone in
But it gets so lonely
Being on my own
With no one to talk to
And no one to hold me
I'm not always strong
I need you here

it's only love if you are loved in return

Im scared that there are people out there who want to be with me, but I wont ever be able to be with them because Im too busy wondering why I cant be with you

It’s much easier to turn a friendship into love…
Than love into a friendship

You just don't understand do you? Every time i talk to you it
gets worse. The little butterflies, my stomach dropping, the
spinning, the feeling like everything is all right in the
world. These never stop. They keep coming back

The best boyfriend you'll have isn't the best looking,
the funniest, or the richest.
It's the one that makes you feel gorgeous, hilarious, and like a million dollars.
He makes sure you know he loves you.

fall in love or fall in hate
get inspired or be depressed
ace a test or flunk a class
make babies or make art
speak the truth or lie & cheat
dance on tables or sit in the corner
life is divine chaos. embrace it
forgive yourself. breathe.
& enjoy the ride.

She blows big bubbles with her gum
and laughs when they pop all over her pretty face.
She dances in her Victoria's Secret underwear.
She takes crazy pictures and
posts them on her Myspace.
And to her friends.. she's a star.
Because she realized that life is way too short
to be crying over the asshole that broke her heart

love can make the summer fly,
or make a night seem like a lifetime

Everybody wants to be the sun that lights up your life.
But I'd rather be the moon, so I can shine on you during
your darkest hour of the darkest day when your sun isn't around.

Nothing is as big as your first love.

"Don’t be afraid." I murmured.
"We belong together."
I was abruptly overwhelmed by the truth of my own words.
This moment was so perfect, so right, there was no way to doubt it,
his arms wrapped around me, holding me against him...
it felt like every nerve ending in my body was a live wire.
"Forever." He agreed.
- Breaking Dawn

maybe we're moving too fast; i don't know,
but for the first time in my life, i really don't care.

t's kinda like..
the difference between putting your hand on your knee,
and him putting his hand on your knee.
When you touch your knee, you don't feel it,
nothing happens, its just there.
But when he has his hand there,
you feel everything,
every move of his palm, every squeeze of his hand,
and every brush of his finger.
And you feel it right down to your toes
and up to your neck and everything in your body tingles,
but its the most wonderful thing ever.
Every move he makes makes a difference.

So you're not my type. I think I like that idea.
Because my type usually breaks my heart

He says the cutest things to put the pink in my cheeks.
Cute guys are amazing. Not the super sexy guys who are too shallow even for themselves. But the ones who are sort of clumsy and dorky, and are always sweet. They are the ones worth keeping.

I was really terrified of you.
You actually made me feel something.

yeah, some things in this
world might have passed me by
& i might have missed a chance
or two. but you won't find
any regret in these eyes.

those nights you can't sleep
it might be because you're awake
in someone else's dreams.

you have me wrapped around your finger
i know i can live without you
but when i talk to you, you do it again
you say all the right things
i'm so vulnerable

I'm scared and I don't say that often.
But I can't stand the fact that you could hurt me.
I don't like being this close, but I love it.
You're my everything and I hate it.
Because you have everything you need to break me.
I'm not saying you will, but I'm scared.
Because most guys are all the same.
And they all eventually break you.

It doesn't matter how long you've known him. All that matters
is that, he's had you smiling from day one.

For a kiss to be really good,
you want it to mean something.
You want it to be with someone you can't get out of your head,
so that when your lips finally touch you feel it everywhere.
A kiss so hot & so deep you never want to come up for air.
You can't cheat your first kiss.
Trust me, You don't want to.
Cause when you find that right person for a first kiss,
it's everything...

I don’t know what’s in store for us,
I don’t know how long this will last, and I don’t know if we're meant to be.
But I do know that I love being in your arms,
I know that I love being by your side, and I know that
I love you.

She's got the stars in her pocket
and the moon on a string.

I've got a mind boggling,
sense numbing, heart pounding,
stomach flipping, take my breath away,
head over heels, knee shaking,
day dreaming... crush on you.

There’s a line that warns
That you’re close to the edge
Now I’m falling head over heels

i don't want him to be perfect
i just want him to accept me, want me
make fun of me, kiss me, hold me
and make me watch him play whatever he plays

Smell the summer breeze,
feel the fresh air sweep you away;
forget about tomorrow, yesterday, & today.

Laugh until your body aches. Cry until you start to shake. Live like the world is yours to take. Love as though your heart won’t break.

there comes a time in every life
when we find the heart we're looking for

i guess i'm just not the girl for you.
you need a girl who's happy and perky
all the time. maybe a girl who has had
part of her brain removed and think she's
a bunny. and you can go off and be
bunnies together....asshole.

the longest period of time,
is waiting for something or someone
you truly want.

Its the waiting that’s hard &&
not knowing whether you're
waiting for anything at all

so did you flirt with me, just for fun? or was there some truth to it, because with miscommunications like these, i seem to be the only one with something to lose.

the truth is-- she misses him; even though he was never really hers.

it's like half of me really wants to be with him &&
the other half just wants to be over him

he made her believe she was worth more,
but he ended up being just another boy
who she had to try and get over....

Perfect would be, cuddled up on the couch, with you watching Disney movies. & you telling me that you'll always be my prince charming.

and maybe one day you'll come up and grab my hand and realize that that's all i ever wanted.
Come after me when I run away,
call me back when I hang up on you,
tell me I'm perfect when I'm mad at myself,
& don't let me slip away when I leave.

Disregard the harsh words coming from my tongue. I never meant to speak a word of this, but you promised you wouldn't let me fall. We both go back on our word sometimes

Even though I smirk and say, "Oh well, his loss..." deep down inside, I know it's really mine.

one day your name just didn't make me smile.

and your slow shaking fingertips show that your scared like me so, lets pretend were alone

I have to admit
I’m just a fool for you
and you know it
I hope it makes you happy
knowing you could have me
any day of the week

I still find each day too short for
all the thoughts I want to think,
all the walks I want to take,
all the books I want to read,
& all the friends I want to see.

I don’t care about your past.
All i wanna know is if there’s a place for me in your future.
-- S w e e t H o m e A l a b a m a

If i promise not to cry, can you do me a favor?
For the first time in your life, look me in the eyes & tell me exactly how you feel.

Do I have to spell it out to you
or scream it in your face?
Oh, the chemistry between us could destroy this place.

Cause even if it breaks your heart
To be just friends
If you really care about someone
You'll take the hit

People say you have at least
5 dreams per night.
That's like 30 billions dreams a year.
So at least one of those
Has to be about me.

someday your gonna look back on me n be like
damn that girl really did love me.
and you'll totally regret it.

poor girl didnt realize til it was to late.
she was just his rebound.

I can look at him, like him, and want him... but I can’t have him...

any guy can love a thousand girls,
but only a real guy can love
a girl in a thousand ways.

& I'm sitting here,
rehearsing all the things
I'll never say.

I dont want a star or the moon...
i just want someone to lay under them with.

If he's made you smile from day one, don't ever let him go.

if you think he is the one you want
& the one you love
& the one that can make you happy,
then no matter how long you 've liked him
& no matter what people say you should keep trying & waiting..

a little jealousy in a relationship is healthy,
it's good to know that somebody is afraid to lose you

2 People who have liked each other, loved each other,
Broken up with each other, fought with each other,
And still loved each other after it all -
Deserve to be together . No matter what anyone says.

Ever hang out with the guy you love? And you realize you're half naked and wonder how the hell that happened? Yeah its okay to be a whore when it comes to one guy..

she's scared cause suddenly it's truly
clear how much he really means to her

it`s the kind of crush where i
just finished putting up my away
message && about to walk out then
door when he signs on && suddenly
whatever i was gonna do..doesn`t
matter talking to him does

behind her smile
are stories you may
never understand.

Always remember
when a guy sweeps
you off your feet
hes in the perfect position
to drop you on your ass

&& when I first met you, I never would have imagined I would have such strong feelings for you.

Some of the quotes on this page are from http://www.xanga.com/quotesforyou_xoxo

I don't even know what I want. maybe I just want to be someone's everything.


you always said you'd end up alone never find a man of your own that's not true high and low you searched everywhere but along it's been right there in front of you for all this time was the man you'd always wanted to find. and I still think it's me I still think it's me I still believe one day you will see that we can't fight it or even deny it I need every breath you breathe I still think it's me I still think it's me

this is about, love. the one and only thing in the world that truly matters. love makes the world go round, I’ve lost the ability to love, or at least I fear I have. it’s hard for me to even believe in love, but I know, or hope at least, that one day, I will fall in love again.

one day we'll look back on this, laugh nervously, and quickly change the subject.

don’t be reckless with other people’s hearts, don’t put up with people who are reckless with yours.

are you even listening when I talk to you? do you even care what I’m going through? your eyes stare and they're staring right through me you're right there but it's like you never knew me


you know how much I care about you? because I do. but there's somebody else, and she's a part of my history that came before you, and I’ve been lying to myself about the way that I feel about her...and I need to see her tonight. 'cause I feel like she's slipping away. I’m sorry

I think I like this kid;
Way more then I thought I did.

the hardest guy to get over is the one you never had


Tonight I said goodbye,
but I should have said more.

Don't fight your feelings sweetie, it makes life complicated.

I’d hate to prove you wrong;
but like I’ve said before...
'When he's not near the girl he's lovin',
he's lovin' the girl he's near.

She doesnt have to pretend to like the same stuff he does because she really does.

He gets stuff out of her in two minutes that would normally take two hours.

he doesnt have to pretend to like the same stuff he does because she really does.

He gets stuff out of her in two minutes that would normally take two hours.

She just completely trusts him

They were meant to be

most of the quotes in blue were from http://www.xanga.com/BanBrokenHearts

things wouldn't be so confused and I wouldn't feel so used. but you always really knew - I just want to be with you

you can't force something to go one way when it meant to go another

I’m sure if I saw you somewhere ten years down the road, my heart would still speed up a bit.

I want someone to call when I get bored, to sneak me junk food when I’m sick, to understand that I mean the opposite of what I say, someone that will know how to cheer me up, that won't have overwhelming expectations of me, that will feel comfortable around my family, just someone that truly enjoys my company as much as I enjoy theirs.

just because it didn’t last forever, doesn’t mean it wasn’t worth your while.

pain is knowing you are right for each other, just not right now.

have you ever been with someone when your hearts were beating in the same rhythm? that's true love. a man and a woman with their hearts beating together are truly lucky, and then you've really been in love. you might see that person once a month, once a year, one a lifetime, but you have the guarantee your lives are going to be in rhythm, that's all you need

he doesn't care what he has to do, if your unhappy he'll make you smile

when he was with you, he was really with you. he looked you straight in the eye and listened as if you were the only person in the world.

when I find happiness, don't you dare decide that you love me

I like it now, the way we are. we've come a long way, you and me.

there is a secret about human love that is commonly overlooked: receiving it is much more scary and threatening than giving it. how many times in your life have you been unable to let in someone's love or even pushed it away? much as we proclaim the wish to be truly loved, we are often afraid of that, and so find it difficult to open to love or let it all the way in.



i am not "single"...
I am Romantically Challenged